Basketball, spring break, and other ramblings...

The kids just started school again after spring break. The break itself went by all too fast, as usual. Audrey seems to be having a little trouble getting back into the swing of things. Yesterday she sat down at the kitchen table to do her spelling. 30 seconds later she came and found me:

"Mom, I'm not going to do my homework tonight."

"What? Why?"

"I'm just not going to do it."

Lucky for me, Hermione Lili overheard this conversation and bounded into the room to deliver a lecture on work ethic to her little sister. It was hard not to giggle as she warned Audrey about how laziness now would affect her "later in life," but honestly, sometimes it is nice to have someone else do the lecturing for a while.

Speaking of my dear firstborn, her first season of basketball just ended. It was such a great experience for her to be introduced to the game with such a great group of girls from school. One of her classmate's dads and a VDM alum volunteered to do the coaching, and they really did a fantastic job.

Uncle Cole even made it out to watch the last game, which was actually against some pretty intense rivals. Our girls made it out with only a knocked out dental bracket and a broken pair of glasses, so I guess we should consider ourselves lucky.

The other sibling were riveted spectators, of course.

A nice blurry team shot....they won their last game, which was a great way to end!

An even blurrier shot of our post game Frozen Yogurt outing.

Lili's growing up way too fast...I took her shoe shopping for new spring sandals and she is now a woman's size seven (sob)

But she still spontaneously holds my hand in the mall (double sob)

Hopefully we have a little bit of time left together before everything I do or say humiliates her.

Easter 2012

Just a few shots of our Easter Sunday this year. It was a pretty relaxing day...up at 6:30 assembling Legos left by the Easter Bunny, Mass, a nice brunch with Steve and Cindy and an Easter Egg hunt in the back yard with Abby in the lovely Phoenix sunshine.

Sense and Sensibility and Easter Eggs

The girls and I dyed Easter Eggs today, which always makes me wish my mom was here, because no one loves making a colorful mess with kids more than Nanny.
But actually, we didn't really make a mess today. Maybe it is because Kateri is three and a half and I didn't need to be constantly worrying about someone knocking over everything or drinking the dye, but the whole episode was very calm. So calm, in fact, that I was able to sit back and observe yet again the contrast of Lili and Audrey's personalities. I should have named them Elinor and Marianne.

Every kid gets a limited number of eggs to dye, so Lili sits back, takes inventory of her eggs, compares and contrasts the respective merits of each dye bath, form a plan of attack, and then slowly and methodically carries out that plan.

Audrey just starts throwing eggs in whatever cup is closest, pulling them out again just as quickly, experimenting with different techniques, inadvertently mixing colors, laughing at her stained fingers, and generally stressing Lili out with her recklessness.

After 15 minutes, all of Audrey's eggs are done and drying. Lili only has two finished. She continues to stretch out and savor the experience for an hour or so, after which time she carefully makes a nest of tissue paper and arranges her eggs inside it. They look very nice, stashed prudently in the fridge.

Audrey's eggs are still in their soggy, stained carton outside. Most of them are a total mess...

...but a few happy mistakes are gorgeous.

Maybe there is a method to her madness.
And Kateri?

Kateri was just thrilled to be along for the ride.

Just Taking Advantage

of the beautiful weather...

...and cheap child labor.

Ponyo

I have been a terrible terrible blogger lately. I'm going to chalk it up to first trimester ennui. All I want to do is curl up and gestate.
I saw this image recently and related with it so completely:

Anyway, we are very excited to have a new addition in the fall. Some of us are more excited than others...I detect a little ambivalence in little Kateri, who I think is excited to be a big sister, but senses that she is going to be kicked out of the baby spot. There is no ambivalence, however, in her preference for baby names. She is 100% convinced that the baby is a girl and will be named Ponyo, from the Hayao Miyazaki film:
I guess it fits with the image created in her little brain by my inept and probably confusing attempts to explain the baby at this stage of development.

Audrey is going for full-blown Catholic names. Her favorite at the moment is Philomena: (they had a priest from St. Philomena's shrine in Italy come speak to them this year at school, so she has been on Audrey's radar ever since.

Hopefully she won't start campaigning for St. Ergnand or St. Sexburga (they are real...look them up!)

For now, we are calling the baby Ponyo (mostly due to Kateri's very vocal protestation when anyone dares to suggest something different.)

Luckily we have until September to figure it out.

We're open to suggestions.

The gifts that keep on giving

Now that we're a few weeks out from Christmas, it's fun to see which gifts have had the most staying power with the kids. For Kateri, it seems to be her Solar System floor puzzle from Nanny. She has to put it together at least twice a day, and then she usually sings the little planet song Miss Emily taught Lili when she was three. All of my kids have gone through an "Outer Space" phase at around this age, but Kateri's seems to be lasting the longest:



As for Audrey, the gift she seems to be getting the most use out of is the mix CD her uncle Joe made her. I sneakily set up the camera to record one of her intense lip-syncing sessions, but hesitated to post the video below. Hopefully she won't hate me later for it, but it was just too funny how Lili is humoring her by watching the show, but you can tell she just really wants to get back to her book.



I'm pretty sure Lili has her own dance sessions, she just does it behind closed doors.

An added benefit of Uncle Joe's CDs: both Lili and Audrey all three of the girls know the Flight of the Conchords song "Carol Brown" by heart in its entirety. Thanks, Uncle Joe.

My New Year's Resolution

Is to try and follow the wonderfully simple advice of this wonderfully simple man:

"Pray, Hope, and Don't Worry"

"Pray" and "Hope" are easy enough...it's the last one that gives me trouble. We're only one week into 2012, and I have already had ample opportunities to put it to practice. On such occasions I find myself repeating it desperately over and over to myself like a mantra.

Like when I catch Kateri covertly sucking on the edge of the (undoubtedly germ-infested) shopping cart.

Pray, Hope, and Don't Worry.

Or when Audrey, (my SIX year old) declares to me that the only jeans she can possibly wear are skinny jeans, because "I just look SO much better in them."

Pray, Hope, and Don't Worry.

Or when the school calls to tell me that my second born has lost her lunch in class and the thought of her waiting miserably in the office causes me to rush a bit more than is prudent and the speed trap photo radar van flashes me...

Pray, Hope, and.... spend the next 2-6 weeks in a state of painful suspense frantically checking the mailbox to see if I have in fact received a citation.